February
21, 2014
It
is difficult to be far away from family. That is, at least, if you
like them. Today is my cousin Janae's wedding. Janae knows who she
is, is strong, smart, thoughtful, up for anything, stylish, athletic
and all around awesome. Oh, and she has that Scandinavian beauty. She
has stuck to her principles and waited for the right guy, not
settling for any Tom, Dick, or Harry. I have greatly anticipated this
day long before her groom came along. Today is a victory for all who
have stood firm in what was right as they waited for the best one.
The
vast majority of my excessively large family will be at the wedding
in Seattle, celebrating together. And here I am, thousands of miles
away, weeping in my maqlubba (traditional dish) because I don't get
to be present.
However,
despite my valiant effort to execute a successful pity party, it just
wasn't to be. There I was, minding my own, pathetic little business,
when a great commotion arose outside.
Well,
I'll be! A wedding. How ironic. A crowd of men, all very merry
indeed, danced together on the street. Drums and some sort of
oboe/trumpet blared an intricately tempered beat that clanged off
every surface. The groom looked dapper with his smart black suit and
red tie. From time to time, men passed around a pistol to fire into
the air in celebration. His friends, the men of his tightly knit
community, lifted him onto their shoulders with hollers as they
paraded along.
Here
was the bridegroom, celebrating with his dear friends as he
prepared to meet his bride.
Before
I knew it, I felt the euphoria that occurs when witnessing the
culmination of a person's dreams. I was a voyeur, but isn't that what
a wedding kind of is? You get to bear witness, in a very public way,
to an intimate commitment.
So,
Janae and Andrew, it is with sorrow I am not there with you. Andrew,
you are getting such a catch. As I watched this groom today in his
great joy, it gave me an idea of how you must be feeling.